A woman has ignited extensive debate on social media after publishing her thoughts on why she believes men should avoid marrying some single mothers, garnering both support and criticism.

In an internet video, the woman advised men to be cautious when picking a life partner, distinguishing between widows with children and women who, she claimed, deliberately became single mothers.

The woman said, “If you’re my son, if you’re my brother, if you’re my father, I’ll advice you from a place of love the way i want to advice you right now, do not marry a single mother if you want to leave long.”

She insisted that her statements were not based on feeling and were meant at a specific group of single mothers.

Later, she added, “If a woman’s husband has died and she has children, you can marry her that’s not a problem.”

She further stated, “I’m talking about those women that hire men to impregnate them because they want to be independent, now several years down the line she is now realizing she needs a man. Run for you life my brother.”

The words elicited varied reactions on social media, with some users agreeing that people should carefully evaluate compatibility and personal values before marrying.

Others attacked the comments as unjust and overly broad, stating that people become single parents for a variety of reasons and should not be judged based on stereotypes.

The conversation continues online, with many people arguing relationships, personal responsibility, and the difficulties of modern dating and marriage.