A 48-year-old primary school teacher has gone viral after publicly listing the qualities he wants in a new wife while searching for someone to help raise his three children.
The widower, who said he lost his wife nearly six years ago, explained that he is now ready to remarry and is looking for a woman who can provide a “mother’s touch” for his children.
Sharing his post in a dating group for Southern Kaduna singles, the teacher outlined several conditions he expects any interested woman to meet.
According to him, his ideal wife must be between 18 and 21 years old, be unemployed, and be willing to take care of his children and manage the home while he goes to work.
He also said he prefers a woman who is an orphan because he does not want the financial responsibility of supporting his future wife’s extended family. He added that she should have no more than one sibling, and that sibling should live far away.
Describing his physical preferences, the teacher said he wants a woman who is tall, chocolate-skinned, and “heavy” in stature. He also stated that she should avoid makeup and trousers, wearing only long skirts.
While noting that his future wife would not be expected to contribute financially, he promised to take full responsibility for her welfare and that of his children.
He concluded by saying that, as a teacher, he values discipline and expects his wife to be completely submissive.
He wrote:
“I am a 48-year-old dedicated Primary School Teacher. I lost my wife almost 6 yrs ago, I have 3 energetic children who need a new mother’s touch.
“For these past years, it’s been difficult to find the right woman, a friend advised that i extend my search to social media since it makes the world a global village
“Please, I am a man of peace and I don’t like stress. If you are interested, kind read my humble conditions carefully.
“For age Bracket, You must be between 18 and 21 years. I need someone young who still has her ‘original’ energy to run after my children and look after me. I don’t want an ‘old’ woman of 25 or 30 who will be giving me high blood pressure with her opinions.
“Secondly, You must not be working. I am a teacher, so I will teach you everything you need to know at home. I don’t want a wife who is busy at an office while my children are hungry. Your job is to stay at home, wait for me to return from school, and ensure my water is hot and my food is ready.
“Also, You must be an orphan. I cannot afford to be paying ‘in-law’ tax or sending bags of rice to your village every Christmas. I want a woman who has no one else in this world but me. Also, you must not have more than one sibling, and that sibling must be living far away.
“Further more, please for the.physicaI aspects; I am a man of taste. You must be very tall, chocolate skin, and ‘heavy’ both top and bottom. I want a woman that will make my fellow teachers jealous when we go for PTA meetings. No makeup, no trousers, only long skirts. I want a responsible woman
“As for Financial Contribution, you don’t need to contribute financially I’m willing to take full responsibility in taking good care of you and my kids….
“Last and most importantly, Because I am a teacher, I value discipline. Please, you must be ready to submit 100%.
“If you’re interested, pls link up for a brief interview, lets connect, please no scarms, no games lets be serious.”
The post has since sparked widespread reactions online, with many social media users debating his long list of requirements, particularly his preference for a very young, unemployed orphan with little or no family ties.