A woman has turned to other women for advice after revealing that two painful relationships have left her struggling to trust and open her heart again.

In an anonymous post, she said both relationships ended badly, making her fearful of falling in love for a third time. She asked women who have experienced similar heartbreaks how they managed to heal, rebuild trust, and embrace love again.

Illustrating how deeply the experiences have affected her, she joked that her distrust has become so intense that she even questions her one-year-old son’s tears.

Her post has since gone viral, with many women sharing personal stories of heartbreak, healing, and encouraging her to take the time she needs before entering another relationship.

She wrote:

“Please hide my ID.

My last two relationships showed me flames. Now I’m scared to fall in love because I think the 3rd one is gonna finish me off. I wanna know from ladies who had their hearts broken before, how did you learn to love and trust again? The way I don’t trust that gender anymore, even when my one year old son cries I think he’s lying.”