A woman has questioned why some guys distance themselves from their relationships when they are going through challenging times rather than talking about their experiences.

According to her, some guys abruptly become aloof, carefree, and reclusive, leaving their partners perplexed and in the dark.Calendars and Time

She claims that some eventually come back to clarify that they had been attending to personal matters, while others progressively end the relationship completely.

She questioned whether involving their spouses in their problems could exacerbate them in any way.

“Why’s it that some guys eh, when they’re in a relationship and they’re going through something, instead of them to like involve you as their partner and let you know this or that, they’ll start being distant? They’ll just leave you in the dark without like explaining anything.

“Small small they’ll leave you in the relationship. Sometimes maybe later some of them will return and be like, ‘I was going through something.’ But you’re clearly in a relationship with this person, you guys are cool, next thing attitude, nonchalance and start distancing, next thing they’ll leave you in that relationship.

“My question is why? Is it that if you involve the person something will happen or what?”