Ahmed Babalola, a 70-year-old man, told the Grade A Customary Court in Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, that he was tired of his relationship with his wife, Aduke, who he claimed was unruly, violent, destructive, and enjoyed making his family dislike him by accusing him of not performing well in bed.

Aduke is a nightmare to live with, according to Babalola.

He continued by saying that his wife’s “uncouth behavior” had made their 30-year marriage challenging.

Babalola testified in court that Aduke’s claim that he was incapable in bed made him a laughingstock in front of neighbors and family.

According to the plaintiff, nothing he ever did pleased the defendant, who he claims was constantly filled with anger and eager to pick a fight.

He added that he had to sleep with one eye open because of his wife’s violent nature.

He further explained that he tore the clothes he had sewn for his 70th birthday celebration and also destroyed his birthday cake.

The plaintiff claimed he endured humiliation and threats to his life from his wife, and he could no longer tolerate these any longer.

He, therefore, prayed the court to rule that they go their different ways. 

Aduke consented to the divorce but requested that the court direct her husband to be responsible for their children’s upkeep, highlighting feeding, education, and health care as needing most attention.

“My wife and I had been married for almost 30 years, a period filled with pain and regret,” he said.

“I find my wife’s behaviour towards me detestable.

“Aduke conducts herself in an uncouth manner. She is always rude and quick to pick fights. She never listens to my instructions or takes my advice.

“During our disagreements, my wife always shouts me down and insists on having her way. 

“My wife never stops humiliating me. She tells anyone who cares to listen that I am s3xually inadequate, which is a lie.

“Even at 70 years of age, I remain strong and capable in bed.