A Nigerian woman has ignited internet debate after pointing out what she describes as a worrying pattern among married males.

According to her, some married men lack romance and emotional connection with their spouses, despite demonstrating those qualities with their side lovers.

In a widely shared post, the woman questioned why some men act emotionally aloof in their marriages, particularly when it comes to intimacy, but then become loving outside the home.

“Why do some married men refuse to romance their wives before sex, yet freely romance their side chicks?” she asked.

She also said that some wives are reduced to intimacy without emotional connection, and that some women even conceive while sleeping – a statement that sparked outrage online.

She believes that marriage should not deprive women of tenderness and foreplay, and that wives need the emotional presence and passion that men frequently provide to their side companions.

The article has revived social media conversations regarding marital intimacy and the double standards that are frequently applied to spouses vs side companions.

Reacting, one commentator wrote, “True, romance should not end because you paid bride price.” Another added, “Some men put all the effort outside and come home acting tired.”

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