A Nigerian woman described how a man who had been pursuing her for months rebuffed her demands to begin dating.
She claims that as soon as they started dating, she expressed her desire for a sincere relationship and her disinterest in being billed or having sex.
She clarified that she informed the man that she would not ask him for money and that she was financially independent. She also stated that she wanted them to develop a sincere relationship for eight months to a year before moving forward.
Read what she said below;
“I told this guy, okay, I will not bill you, I’m working. No billing. And I don’t want any knacking relationship. I want the first few months of the relationship to be a genuine relationship for like eight months to one year. No billing, no knacking.”
But when they started dating, the man allegedly told her that he could never date a woman he wouldn’t be sexual with right away.
The woman disclosed that he rejected the relationship because she refused to have an intimate contact with him, even though she had promised not to seek for money.
She further revealed that the man had informed her that she could only ask for money when he had it and that she would have to be understanding if he didn’t.
“He said he can never date a girl that he will not be sleeping with. I said no billing, but he still said he can never date me. I said, okay, that means I’ll be free to be billing you. He said it is only when he has the money I can ask, and if he doesn’t, I have to understand.”
The woman wondered why the man didn’t accept her choice regarding intimacy while expecting her to comprehend his financial constraints.

