A lady has sparked widespread reactions on social media after questioning why many divorced women allegedly blame only their former husbands whenever they discuss the reasons their marriages failed.

In a post that has since gone viral, she argued that she has rarely seen divorced women publicly acknowledge their own mistakes, claiming that conversations about failed marriages often focus entirely on the shortcomings of men.

Her comments have generated mixed reactions online, with many users debating accountability and personal responsibility in relationships.

Sharing her opinion, she wrote:

“I’ve never seen any divorced woman tell us why they had a failed marriage, everytime, the man no good, the man no good.”

She further challenged divorced women to be more open about the roles they may have played in the breakdown of their marriages, suggesting that such honesty could help younger women learn valuable lessons before getting married.

The lady added:

“If e sure for you, con tell us why your marriage failed. As una dey tell young girls to carry shoulder up and disrespect men, make una dey also tell us why your marriage failed.”

She concluded by saying:

“Everytime na the man get fault. What about you? It takes two to make a wrong, it takes two to make a right. Make una come out tell us your fault so that we can learn.”