A female preacher has sparked outrage online after encouraging women to avoid dating impoverished men, arguing that a man’s genuine character frequently changes as he becomes financially wealthy.
The preacher made the remarks during a sermon that has since gone viral on social media. She warned women about the hazards of “suffering and building together” with financially unstable relationships.
According to her, many women spend years supporting struggling men only to be abandoned once they achieve financial success.
“You cannot know a poor man’s real character until he starts touching money,” she said. “No matter how it is, he will leave you at the end of the day. It’s not fair to build with a poor man, build with a rich man.”
The preacher lambasted women who take great satisfaction in persevering through difficult relationships, implying that they frequently experience heartbreak as a result of their excessive patience and sacrifice.
“Go and be doing understanding girlfriend,” she said. “If you finish understanding, your understanding will understand you.”
Some members of the church laughed at her remarks, while others were taken aback by the direct delivery.
She went on to say that many women prioritise physical attractiveness over more important attributes like temperament, mental stability, and responsibility when selecting a spouse.
“A lot of ladies don’t even know the kind of man they want,” she stated. “You just want a man who is tall, handsome, with six packs. You don’t know the kind of character he has built.”
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