Nigerian singer Mr Real has sparked a conversation about parenthood after questioning men who decide not to have children, arguing that he finds it easier to understand women who make the same choice.

The singer shared his opinion in an Instagram post on Monday, October 19, 2026, contrasting women’s decisions not to have children with those of men.

His remarks have drawn attention to differing societal expectations of men and women regarding parenthood, marriage and family life.

Mr Real explains his position on having children

In his post, Mr Real suggested that he could understand why a woman might choose not to have children but struggled to accept the same decision from a man.

He wrote:

“Is understandable if a woman says she don’t wanna have kids in this life very understandable.”

The singer added:

“But you as a man saying you don’t want kids bro you be agege.”

Although he used the term “Agege” as a derogatory expression, he did not provide further clarification about what he meant by it.

Comments raise questions about expectations of parenthood

Mr Real’s statement has brought renewed attention to the social expectations surrounding parenthood and whether men and women should be judged differently for choosing to remain child-free.

While some people regard having children as an important part of marriage and family life, others decide against parenthood for personal, financial, health-related or other reasons.

The singer’s comments reflect his personal views rather than an established fact about men who choose not to have children.

The available report did not include reactions from other social media users, and it remains unclear whether Mr Real has offered further explanations of his position.