Fans have brought back an old video of Big Brother Naija host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu questioning Bella Okagbue about the insults and name-calling she allegedly received from her then-boyfriend, Sheggz, while they were housemates.

In the resurfaced clip, Ebuka asked Bella why she frequently apologised to Sheggz and why she appeared to tolerate being called names such as “fool,” “sick” and “stupid.”

Ebuka also questioned whether such behaviour was part of Bella’s idea of a love language and sought to understand why she continued accepting it.

Bella Explains Her Relationship With Sheggz

Bella explained that the name-calling was not a love language but said she genuinely liked Sheggz and would not ordinarily accept such treatment.

She admitted that she was uncomfortable with the behaviour but claimed that Sheggz had improved and that they were still trying to understand each other.

The conversation went:

Ebuka: “How’re you doing?”

Bella: “I’m fine Ebuka.”

Ebuka: “So, I just want an explanation on something. I feel like quite a few times when I tune in you are apologizing to Sheggz for something or the other. And I’m not really sure why that keeps happening. And then I hear you being called fool, sick, you’re stupid and all of those weird words. Is that a love language for you, I’m not sure why you keep taking that, What’s happening?”

Bella: “It’s actually not a love language but like… Ebuka I really like him so…I wouldn’t take it on a normal day, but like yeah…I apologise to him because sometimes he feels like I disrespect him…”

Ebuka: “So when you love people you are okay with name calling? I’m just trying to understand that…”

Bella: “I’m actually not okay with it. I’m trying to correct that and he has actually improved a lot, so yeah. We’re still working on getting to know each other….”

The old clip has attracted renewed attention following the recent breakup between Bella and Sheggz, as well as the public allegations and disputes surrounding their relationship.