Reality TV star Sheggz has opened up about how his understanding of love has evolved as he celebrates his 30th birthday, saying he no longer believes that finding the “right person” is what makes a relationship successful.

According to the former Big Brother Naija housemate, his past relationships taught him that love has a way of exposing a person’s ego, insecurities, communication style, patience, and the areas where personal growth is still needed.

Reflecting on his journey, Sheggz said he now values consistency over chemistry, explaining that healthy relationships are built on accountability, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to growing together.

He added that love is not about waiting for perfection, but about two imperfect people intentionally choosing each other every day while building something meaningful together.

His reflection has since sparked conversations online, with many social media users relating to his perspective on love, maturity, and personal growth.