A Nigerian lady has sparked debate on social media after advising women not to accept relationship proposals from men who do not put in a grand effort when asking them out.

She said a proper proposal should involve a decorated room, gifts, and careful planning, adding that women should not settle for anything less.

According to her, such gestures are the minimum expectation from men who are truly serious about pursuing a relationship.

She also encouraged women to reject men who are unwilling to make that level of effort, saying it would make room for more intentional partners.

She added that women deserve partners who are capable, deliberate, and willing to make them feel appreciated from the start of a relationship.

In her words, she said:

“Ladies, henceforth, if a guy wants to ask you out and he cannot do a proper proposal, I mean a decorated room with lots of gifts, asking you to be his girlfriend, don’t accept.”

“Do not accept because those are the bare minimum. And if they are not ready to do the bare minimum, let them move on to the next person,” she added.