A man has reflected on the realities of marriage, revealing that he and his wife went through several difficult phases before learning to handle conflicts more maturely.

Sharing his experience from nine years of marriage, he admitted that there were periods when disagreements affected their communication and relationship.

According to him:

“As a married man, I once rejected my wife’s food over a quarrel for over a week even though I was still providing the money for it.

There was another time, close to three weeks, where I didn’t speak to her and she didn’t speak to me. Today I’ve outgrown all those habits.

At some point i said i no do again. But today we are 9 years still learning and enjoying it.

A lot of you talk like pros until you get married and your true nature comes out.

Marriage is just two imperfect people looking to build something. Blocking and unblocking your husband is just one way people vènt anger that doesn’t mean she isn’t interested again one day she’ll outgrow it.

On social media people behave as if dem no dey sh!t.

You don’t know what you can do until you get married.

No one gives marital advice more than a man or woman who hasn’t tested marriage.

I can’t do this I can’t do that

If you have never quarreled with your wife or husband to the point of leaving, the marriage then you haven’t truly started”

His remarks have sparked discussions online, with many people sharing their views on conflict, growth, and maturity in marriage.