A 41-year-old lady has sparked internet debate after admitting to regretting the relationships she chose in her twenties.
In an open video, she said that when she was younger, she put a lot of effort into finding a wealthy partner, rejecting males she called “good” because they didn’t fit her budget.
“At my 20s, I selected a man. I selected a lot. I said to myself… that I can’t settle for less… I need a rich man, I need a wealthy man,” she said, adding that she believed she knew her worth at the time.
As she considered her current circumstances, she lamented being unmarried at age 41 and stated that she believes she would have made other choices if she had received better advice earlier in life.
She advised younger ladies to consider their relationship objectives carefully and to not put off getting married and starting a family if they want to.
Read her words below;
“If anybody had given me this advice I’m sharing with you, I wouldn’t have been where I am now, single at 41. At my 20s, I selected a man. I selected a lot. I said to myself, in fact, I said to my friends that I can’t settle for less, that I know my rights, I know my worth. I told them that I need a rich man, I need a wealthy man. That I need a man that is going to spoil me, pamper me and all that. It doesn’t mean that I wasn’t seeing good men. I was. But obviously I was looking at money. I was after wealth. But look at me now. 41, still single and searching. At my age, I should be having at least 15 years old kids right now. But look at me, say single and searching, searching. 20 years girls are searching. Me too, I am searching. I feel so ashamed of myself. This is the truth. A lot of girls out there my age will not tell you because of course they regret it behind closed doors. But I don’t feel cool keeping this to myself. Let me save some girls out there. Because if anybody had told me this earlier, I wouldn’t be where I am today. So do wait for a man listening to me. Do wait to share this video. It could really save your sisters out there. It could save your friends, your female friends out there. And if you’re a girl listening to me, try not to settle down in your late 20s to 25s. Once you get to 30, it’s really, really difficult for a man to come by. It’s really difficult. Make use of your youthful exuberant age now. Make use of your beautiful body, your beautiful energetic body now.”
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