A Nigerian preacher who made a bold remark on marital infidelity, saying that his wife would not live the day she cheated on him, has sparked controversy online.
In a lecture that was extensively posted on social media, the “man of God” stated that he does not prioritise marrying a virgin but cautioned that infidelity would have serious repercussions.
Read his words below;
“If I want to marry, I don’t care if the woman is a virgin or not, besides I don’t pray to marry a virgin,
Whether she’s a virgin or not, it’s nothing to me but the day she will open her legs for another man, she will definitely diéd..
Because cheating on me will reduce my anointing and the heavens won’t be happy with me.
You don’t marry someone and cheat on them, I am not a jealous person but you will leave this world if you cheat on me after marriage”.
The cleric emphasised that marital loyalty cannot be compromised and that betrayal would never be accepted.
People’s reactions to his words were swiftly divided, with many disputing the tone and implications of his statements.
See below;
See reactions below;
A social media user identified as Mary wrote: “Cheating is a deal breaker for many people, and that boundary is valid. Marriage is a covenant built on loyalty and trust. If someone knows they can’t stay faithful, it’s better not to commit at all. Faithfulness isn’t control, it’s a choice you make every day.”
Another user, Jah-Bless, shared a similar view, stating: “Honestly, cheating isn’t just a betrayal of trust, it’s a breach of the covenant of marriage.
If someone marries knowing full well that they might cheat, it makes you question why they married in the first place. Loyalty and commitment aren’t optional, they’re the foundation.”
However, Araboriota offered a different perspective, writing: “Loyalty in marriage is important, and it’s valid to feel strongly about cheating. However, saying a partner will die for cheating is extreme and unhealthy.
Marriage should be built on love, trust, and respect not fear or threats. While cheating is hurtful, people handle it differently: some leave, some seek counseling, and some forgive. It’s okay to set boundaries, but a healthy relationship should feel safe, not terrifying.”
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