A Nigerian man has shared his experience with his former girlfriend, alleging that she failed to repay a ₦100,000 loan he gave her in 2024 to cover her school fees before she eventually got married and relocated to Ghana in 2025.
The man recounted that he offered the financial assistance when his then-girlfriend was experiencing difficulties and approached him for help.
According to his account, her father was hospitalised at the time, leaving her in a difficult situation with no one else to turn to for financial support.
He explained that he agreed to lend her the money after she promised to refund it, but the repayment was never made.
Narrating how the incident happened, the man said he gave his former girlfriend the money while they were still in a relationship in 2024.
He explained that she needed the money to pay her school fees but could not afford the payment at the time, prompting her to seek his assistance.
Recounting the incident, he said:
“I lent my ex ₦100,000 while we were still together in 2024. She wanted to pay her school fees and had no money, so she approached me and begged me to lend her the money. At that time, her father was in the hospital and she had no one else to turn to for help.”
He said he eventually transferred the money to her, which she used to settle her school fees. The agreement, according to him, was that she would refund the amount at a later date.
However, he alleged that despite the arrangement, she never paid back the money before getting married and relocating to Ghana in 2025.
His account has sparked conversations about financial assistance in romantic relationships, unpaid personal loans and the importance of clear repayment agreements when lending money to loved ones.
