A pastor has warned that Christian women are being forced to marry outside of their faith as a result of men’s refusal to get married.

The trend has significant ramifications for the church and future generations, the cleric pointed out.

Men’s neglect forces christian women to marry outside faith

Speaking in a recent sermon, the pastor said: “I realized that your counterpart, they’re marrying. And guess who they are getting married to? The Christian girls! Why? Because you men do not want to marry. So should the girls kill themselves? It has to be said. If lesbianism were a Christian concept, men, you would not see wives.”

She went on to discuss interfaith marriages and their impact on children.

According to her, “These men are coming from outside to marry them. That’s why you’ll hear Christian girls saying things like, ‘he’s very nice.’ This is happening because men refuse to step up. Some girls even plan to divorce after having children. You do not understand the damage that has been done because you choose to sit there until you die. You think you are the provider of the home. But there were girls before you came; were they not surviving?”

Pastor warns on consequences for families and church

The pastor urged men to assume responsibility for marriage and family life while cautioning against compromising religious values in marriage..

“What they are doing now is marrying the girls, having children, and Islamizing them. If you are a Christian, we don’t crossbreed in this kingdom. God said it’s not good for a man to be alone—don’t force people to marry.”

She also urged men to take responsibility in relationships, highlighting the consequences of inaction on the church and society

“Be fruitful and multiply. Why not? When you say be fruitful and multiply, it’s children. How do you replenish the earth?”

The message serves as a call for men to step up, honour commitments, and support the spiritual and social wellbeing of their communities.