A Kenyan woman identified as Fiona Wageci has sparked debate on social media after advising men to marry only v|rgins or women who have had just one §£×ual partner.
Wageci shared the opinion in a Facebook post on Saturday, October 17, arguing that some women spend their younger years engaging in casual relationships before seeking marriage and commitment later in life.
According to her, such women may spend years partying and having multiple §£×ual partners before deciding to settle down around the age of 30.
She questioned why men should commit to marriage with women whom she believes previously offered other men relationships without the same level of commitment.
“Can I tell you another reason why you MUST marry a V|RGIN? A lady will sleep with 6 different men before praying for a husband. 5 years of partying, 3 years of casual dating and h••k-ups. Then at 30, she suddenly becomes serious and wants loyalty, respect and a ring. That is where you enter the chat,” she wrote.
Wageci further alleged that some women change their lifestyles and public presentation when they decide to seek marriage, becoming more religious and dressing modestly.
She argued that despite these changes, such women might struggle to build emotional connections with their husbands after marriage.
She wrote:
“By this time, she has gained experience, learned what men want, and understands how to present herself. She becomes prayerful, dresses elegantly, and joins the church. Now she wants you to pay full price, for what 6 others got for free.”
The Kenyan woman also claimed that some men might discover after marriage that their wives struggle with emotional int|macy, submission and respect.
“My guy, you then marry her, only to get home and discover that she is emotionally unavailable, struggles to bond with you, is not submissive, and does not respect you because, in her eyes, you cannot satisfy her the way her exes did. Si unaona uko na kibarua?” she added.
Wageci cautioned men against judging potential partners solely by their appearance, manner of speaking, dressing or religious presentation.
She encouraged men to pay attention to a woman’s character, values, honesty and consistency when considering marriage.
“Never TRUST a woman because she looks innocent, speaks softly, dresses modestly, or presents herself as the perfect partner. Appearances can be deceiving. Pay attention to her character, her values, her honesty, and her consistency,” she wrote.
She concluded by urging men to verify a prospective wife’s §£×ual history before committing to marriage.
“Above all, VERIFY and proofread that she is either a V|RGIN or doesn’t have a body count of more than ONE.”
Her comments have raised questions about §£×ual history, trust, compatibility and expectations in marriage. However, her assertions about women with multiple §£×ual partners are personal opinions and should not be taken as established facts about their ability to love, remain faithful or maintain healthy marriages.
