Alhaji Ali Kamal, a man from Ghana, posted a message he got from a woman who bemoaned her husband’s lack of emotional connection. 

After Kamal shared a video of himself dancing with his first wife, the woman sent the message. 

The woman claims that despite being married for eleven years, she has never danced with her husband, had deep conversations with him, and is unable to even approach him unless he requests s.3x. 

In response to the message, Kamal cautioned couples against comparing their marriages to those of others because social media frequently features carefully chosen and idealized depictions of marriages. 

“Hmmm just opened my messenger and saw this… Please oooo, don’t use other people lifestyle to read your own… I have challenge posting my wives, this are 1 of the reasons. Some women will see and begin fighting their husbands, no no. There is no perfect marriage, even my wives are managing me.
Myself I know am not correct,” he wrote.

“Don’t use social media to run your home. Every man is different. Your husband maybe doing something good, maybe I have never done some to my wives b4. The guys tooo, don’t be tooo hard, open yourself soo your wives can talk freely… Don’t seee de video of de dance moves and assume I don’t have problems. We fight more than you people, just that our fight don’t go out like that cos they know how to cool me down. I maybe good in some aspects but I have my boni sides as well. Let’s pray for longer life and good health.”