Reverend (Mrs) Stellamaris Ajetomobi, a Nigerian clergyman, has generated outrage after a viral video leaked online of her making provocative remarks regarding marriage, sex, and marital duties.
The video, which has been widely shared on social media sites, shows her speaking confidently about her perspective of marital responsibilities and the role of intimacy in marriage.
Viral remarks provoke an internet controversy.
In the viral video, Reverend (Mrs) Stellamaris Ajetomobi made a series of assertions characterising sex as the major purpose of marriage and contrasted life before and after marriage. She answered, “If I have to do it, it’s gone down. Excuse me, sex equals marriage.
Read what she said below:
“If I need to do it, it’s gone down. Excuse me, sex is marriage. Sex is marriage. Let me tell you, in my father’s house I used to wear clothes. I eat rice. I eat any food.
I have house to leave everything. What do you think I came to look for in my husband’s house? It’s sex. It’s sex. Sex is the matter. It’s very yours.
If I do it with any other man, I will be stoned. If I do it with any other man, God will frown at it. So he’s the only one I have liberty.
And they even gave me certificate, as many of you that were there that day. Certificate to do. And so, if anybody find me, you find me in your pastor’s room. You can’t query me, isn’t it?
Because that is the assignment you send me to be doing there. You can help me cook. That’s not bad.
You can help me wash clothes. That’s not bad. In fact, you can help me do homework for my children.
I pay teachers to do that. This assignment, this is the core assignment. I can’t pay anybody. If I need to do it, it’s gone down.”
Watch the video below;