A man has generated discussion online after revealing the surprising reason he chose to marry his wife instead of another woman he said he was deeply in love with during his dating years.
He explained that at the beginning of his relationship journey, he was dating three women simultaneously.
According to him, the woman who eventually became his wife was not his first choice at the time.
His story has since sparked reactions on social media, with many users debating the importance of support, loyalty, and compatibility when choosing a life partner.
While recounting his experience, the man revealed that his wife ranked lowest among the three women he was dating.
“When I was dating this my wife, there were two other girls I was also dating at the same time. Amongst three of them, my wife was the least. I didn’t even care about my wife at all, it was one of the other two girls that I loved so much. So one day i had a very serious problem and asked this girl for 5k. This girl para for me say na taboo for a woman to give a man money.”
“The second girl as I call her she no even allow me talk before she cut the phone. So I con call this smally here, she con give me 10k. My mindset change.”
Reflecting on the experience, he shared his views on what many men value in long-term relationships.
“All these girls, if the only thing you can offer a man is your body, they’ll sleep with you until you reach 40 years and they no go marry you.”