A Nigerian woman has turned to social media to hammer home the point that adults should have as many children as they can support.

In a social media-trending video, the woman urged people to have children they can care for rather than just having them in the hope that someone else will look after their needs. After her friend, who “gives birth almost every two years,” contacted her and other friends to raise money for her child’s dedication, she expressed her ideas.

‘’Almost every two years all of us as friends will have to gather money for your child’s naming ceremony or for dedication or for one year birthday. We have been friends with you for 17 years and its more like you are learning nothing from everything we have been saying to you. Now you are on your 5th child and you want everybody to contribute money for your child’s dedication and I said I am out because this 2023 I have chosen to become selfish. I do for you what I want to do and not what you want me to do. If you chose to open your legs or keep impregnating your woman you should be ready to shoulder the responsibility that comes with it.”

Watch the video here