The father of an 8-year-old girl who has been inquiring about her mother, who left her when she was 18 months old, has taken to social media to vent his anguish.
The unmarried father, @Mthoko90070958, claimed that the circumstances are difficult for him and that he is unclear of how to handle them because his baby mama doesn’t even think about checking on or visiting her daughter.
He claims that he has made the decision not to interact with his child’s mother, but she is making it challenging for him by making repeated requests to see her mother.
Read his tweet below;
“My baby momma left when our daughter was 18 months old, now she’s 8 years and lately she’s been asking me where her mom was. I really have no idea how to handle this situation coz you can see the lady doesn’t even think of asking or visiting her daughter.
I also told myself that I don’t want anything to do with her, it’s my daughter now that’s making it difficult for me. I think she needs her mom in her life or something”.
Different people responded to his tweet in different ways, and several of them offered advice on how he should approach the circumstance.
Responding a Twitter user @RonaldDeBique wrote,
“Yes agreed with you until you said he should look for the mother. He is under no obligation to do so; That woman left them, so she would be the one coming back to ask for their love and forgiveness. Not him and his daughter seeking her out to grant forgiveness!!”
“As harsh as it may sound ,deep down I don’t think she wanted the baby in the first place, what mother just leaves her child and go?!!!I sympathize with u bro may God give u the wisdom and strength to have the right answers for ur daughter and continue doing a great job,